As a mother who has experienced both bottle feeding and breastfeeding, I’ve learned so much through the trials and triumphs of nurturing my children. My journey began with challenges adapting to motherhood, struggling with breastfeeding, and ultimately finding success in nurturing my little ones through breastfeeding. I want to share my personal story, highlighting the tools, techniques, and moments that have defined my experience as a mother.

The Early Days: A New Mother’s Struggles

When I had my first child at just 18, I faced many obstacles. I didn’t know much about lactation or how to properly latch my baby onto my breast. On top of that, I was navigating the pressures of being married into a family that didn’t support breastfeeding and didn’t understand its benefits. This combination led me to exclusively bottle-feed my first child. I did manage to pump a small amount of breast milk, about 2 ounces, but my milk supply eventually dried up.

During this time, I started with the Philips Avent Natural Bottle for bottle feeding. However, as I lived with my in-laws, I found myself anxious about their ability to measure the formula correctly. This prompted me to switch to the Playtex Drop-In Liner Bottle. The convenience of using drop-in liners meant less cleanup for me and allowed my in-laws to discard the liners after use. This solution was particularly helpful since my husband and I were constantly traveling between our families, making it easier to manage feeding on the go.

A Fresh Start with Baby #2

After a three-year gap, I was excited to welcome my second child. This time, I was determined to give breastfeeding another try. Understanding the need for a more supportive environment, I suggested to my husband that we move out of my in-law’s home within three months. I wanted to create a space where I could focus on breastfeeding without the distractions and worries I had before.

When my second child arrived, I faced some initial challenges as I relearned the process of breastfeeding. In the hospital, I started with colostrum, and although it was all my baby needed at that time, I worried it wouldn’t be enough. To ease my anxiety, I supplemented with formula using 5mL syringes until we were discharged.

Once home, my milk came in, but I struggled with postpartum emotions and breastfeeding difficulties. My baby had trouble latching, which led to tears from both of us. Seeking help, I used the Philips Avent Manual Breast Pump and fed him with a syringe. Luckily, a compassionate lactation consultant visited me, identified my issue—an inward nipple—and introduced me to a nipple shield. It was a game-changer! My baby latched on without any problems, and I was so grateful for the support. Within just a couple of days, I transitioned to breastfeeding without the shield.

From that point on, I successfully breastfed all four of my children during their first years, without needing formula—a heartfelt achievement that filled me with pride. This journey taught me the importance of asking for help, adapting to challenges, and finding joy in nurturing my children through breastfeeding.

Tools of the Trade: Essential Items for a Smooth Feeding Experience

In those early days of breastfeeding, I experienced cracked nipples. I used the hospital’s nipple cream and later opted for Lansinoh Lanolin Nipple Cream, which worked well for me. While there are various creams available, this one was convenient and effective for soothing soreness.

Throughout the first year of breastfeeding my second, third, and fourth children, I relied on the Philips Avent Manual Breast Pump. Each morning, after a night without feeding, I found it effective, as my babies usually slept well through the night.

To maximize my breast milk production, I introduced the NatureBond Silicone Breast Pump into my routine. This handy device was attached to the breast I wasn’t actively nursing, allowing me to collect milk without wasting a drop. For efficient storage and freezing, I used Lansinoh Breastmilk Storage Bags. When I left my baby with their dad for errands, the Philips Avent Glass Baby Bottle was my go-to for short-term storage in the fridge. I also used Medela Breast Milk Freezing and Storage Containers and Zip Top Reusable Silicone Containers as alternatives for brief storage.

When out and about, I preferred the Philips Avent Natural Bottle for feeding expressed breast milk. To simplify warming it, I relied on the Baby Brew’s Bottle Warmer. This portable warmer was fantastic for travel and home use, heating breast milk quickly to the perfect temperature with just a button press. **Fun Fact: The Baby Brew’s Bottle Warmer was the first portable bottle warmer ever invented, and I knew I had to get it because it was a lifesaver.

Investing in Convenience: The Elvie Double Electric Breast Pump

During my fifth pregnancy, I discovered the Elvie Double Electric Breast Pump. This discreet, wireless device could be worn inside a standard nursing bra, making it hands-free and portable. Despite its hefty price tag of $549.99, I knew it would be worth it. I found out about a healthcare initiative called Aeroflow Breastpumps that allowed mothers to acquire such items through health insurance, making the purchase much more manageable.

Completing the Qualify Through Insurance Form was simple, and they verified my coverage, presenting me with options and handling all the paperwork. This streamlined process made it easier for me to get the Elvie pump, providing essential support during the months of peak milk production while caring for my fifth child.

A Smooth Cleanup: Cleaning and Drying Essentials

For cleaning bottles and accessories, I preferred the Boon Portable Bottle Brush due to its flat design and compact size. I previously used the Munchkin Bottle Drying Rack but found it bulky, so I switched to the Boon Lawn Countertop Baby Bottle Drying Rack Bundle. This new design was streamlined and easy to access, making my bottle-drying process simpler.

For travel, I found the Boon Travel Silicone Drying Rack to be incredibly useful. It comes with a case that combines a brush and drying area, making it a practical choice on the go.

Conclusion: A Journey Worth Sharing

As I reflect on my journey through the initial years of bottle feeding and breastfeeding, I realize how thoughtful choices and the right support made it smoother. I hope that by sharing my insights, I can inspire and bring ease to fellow parents navigating this rewarding yet challenging adventure.

Cheers to all parents out there! May your experiences be filled with joy and fulfillment as you nurture your little ones.